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Let’s be honest, bhaya—tote bags are basically black holes. You start with a phone and a wallet, and two weeks later, you’re carrying an umbrella, five pens, and enough receipts to wallpaper your bedroom.
I’m always amazed at how every woman’s tote is different, but somehow, we all carry the same “just in case” stuff. Whether you’re headed to the office, college, or even just to run errands, there are some essentials every tote deserves.

My Everyday Tote Checklist (a.k.a. Why My Bag Weighs a Kilo)

  1. Wallet
    Non-negotiable. I keep everything—cards, cash, that random loyalty card I never use. Pro tip: clear it out once a month or you’ll be fishing for coins at the checkout.
  2. Phone & Earphones
    Can’t survive without these, and let’s be real—half the time, the earphones are tangled with my keys.
    Bonus: If you’ve ever accidentally answered a call on speaker in public, you know the struggle.
  3. Hand Sanitizer & Wet Wipes
    Especially after the last few years! The amount of stuff I’ve saved from mystery stains with a wet wipe is unreal.
  4. Keys
    House, bike, office, sometimes even a spare for my friend (because someone always forgets).
  5. Lip Balm & Kajal
    For emergency touch-ups and that “I didn’t sleep last night” look. Some days, I have three lip balms rolling around—don’t ask why.
  6. Compact Mirror
    Just in case. I once tried fixing my eyeliner with my phone screen. Never again.
  7. Hair Ties & Tic Tacs
    Honestly, if you’re a long-hair girl and you don’t have at least two extra hair ties, are you even prepared?
  8. Pen & Notepad
    No matter how digital we get, you still need to scribble stuff sometimes. Grocery lists, random thoughts, or passing secret notes at work.
  9. Emergency Snack
    Granola bar, chocolate, or good old Parle-G. There’s always a snack, and sometimes that’s the only thing between me and hanger.
  10. Mini Perfume or Deodorant
    Because the day you forget is always the day you need it most.
  11. Foldable Tote Bag
    Meta, but true! I keep a thin foldable bag for those “I just bought three things, oops” moments at the store.
  12. Power Bank/Charger
    If your phone dies in traffic, you feel like you’ve been stranded on a desert island. Never again.

Bonus: Weird Things You Might Find in My Tote

  • A single earring (where’s the other one? No clue)
  • Movie tickets from last month
  • Half-eaten pack of gum
  • That receipt I keep meaning to throw out

Seriously, every clean-out is like a lucky dip.

Story Time: The Tote Bag Lifesaver

I once got caught in a sudden downpour on my way to a job interview. Pulled out an old plastic bag from my tote, saved my resume and my hair. That’s when I realized—Mary Poppins had nothing on the average Indian woman’s tote.

FAQs: What’s in My Tote? (No-Filter Edition)

  1. Isn’t all this stuff too heavy for daily use?
    Honestly, yes sometimes! But every time I leave something out, I end up needing it. My advice? Switch shoulders often, and declutter once in a while.
  2. How do I keep my tote organized?
    Pouches, bhaya! One for makeup, one for snacks, one for random junk. Or just embrace the chaos and enjoy the treasure hunt.
  3. Do I really need to carry a notepad in 2025?
    You’d be surprised! Phones die, apps crash, and sometimes you just need to pass a note or jot down a random genius idea.
  4. Should I keep medicines in my tote?
    A strip of painkillers or an allergy tablet, yes. Don’t carry your entire medical kit unless you’re traveling!
  5. What’s the best snack to stash in a tote?
    Something that won’t melt or leak—granola bars, dry fruits, or those mini biscuit packs. Avoid chocolate in Delhi summers… trust me.
  6. Is it weird to carry a foldable bag inside my tote?
    Nope! You’ll thank yourself the next time you end up at a store or need to carry extra stuff last minute.
  7. What should I skip to keep my tote lighter?
    If you haven’t used it in a week, toss it! Old receipts, half-used makeup, random keys—let them go.
  8. How often should I clean out my tote?
    Honestly, whenever you can’t find your keys in under a minute, it’s time.
  9. Are tote bags safe for travel?
    Totally, just pick one with a zipper or snap for security. I use mine as a carry-on every time.
  10. Can I make my tote look fancy with all this stuff inside?
    Easy—just keep the outside clean, add a cute scarf or keychain, and act confident. No one’s checking the chaos inside!